Just because she broke your heart, doesn’t mean you need to be a dick about it – she doesn’t owe you a yes, and acting as though she did will ruin any future chances she may have offered you.

Wallow. Seriously, if you feel you need to – do it. But then get up and get over it.

The first time you see someone after being rejected by them can be gut-wrenching, especially if you’re still hung up on her. Commonly, you may experience butterflies, anxiety in the chest, and sweaty palms as you come into eye-view of her.

If you told Tom that you were going to ask her out, then you can guarantee you’ll be asked how it went next time you see him.