It’s always important before a date to know what your boundaries are, and to stick to them. Decide going in if you want to sleep with them should the opportunity arise. Understand what you are comfortable disclosing about your current and previous dating history, as this may come up. If you don’t want anyone to know you’re dating, tell your date straight up. Of course, your date may have boundaries of their own, so be sure to discuss and respect these throughout the time you’re together – and afterwards.