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How To Be Sexually Dominant | Man of Many

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Sexual domination involves a set of rituals and behaviours where you take control over a submissive other person (or people) during sexual play.

What is the Definition of Sexual Domination?

The dom-sub relationship is all about trust.

Most Importantly – Get Consent

If dom-sub play is new to your relationship, it’s worth discussing what those roles mean for you both before any action is taken.

Setting the Scene and Your Roles

Find out how she wants to be dominated too. Does she like to be spanked, tied up, talked dirty to, humiliated, held down… Discussing the many ways you can dominate will help to uncover what is OK and what’s not OK during play. Once you’ve aligned on some acts, then it’s time to talk specifics.

What’s OK? And What’s Not?

Some of the ways you can dominate your woman in the bedroom include:

What are Dominant Acts?

Now that you’ve had your fun in the bedroom (or bar, or office, or car…), it’s important to equalise the roles between yourself and your partner. Not doing so can unbalance the power between you both and create tension in the relationship.

Being Dominant Outside the Bedroom

Put your money (or a gag) where your mouth is and get yourself some toys to really spice up your sex life.

Top 5 Toys For Dominant Sex

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What is the meaning of sexually dominant?

Sexual domination involves a set of rituals and behaviours where you take control over a submissive other person (or people) during sexual play.

Is it good to be dominant?

Being dominant in bed can bring alot of pleasue to you and your partner. When being dominant it is important to follow certain rules such as getting consent, setting the roles, and knowing what is okay and what isnt for you and your partner.

Sexually Dominant FAQ

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