In Partnership with Adam and Eve\r\nEnter code MANY at checkout\u00a0\u00a0for 50% Off 1 Item + Free Shipping In the US & Canada + 3 Free Adult DVDs + Free Mystery Gift *some exclusions apply\r\nInterested in buying a pleasure toy but worried what your partner may think? You\u2019re not alone. It\u2019s completely understandable that lovers can feel threatened when the subject of pleasure toys come up, so here are some tips on broaching the subject the respectful way.\r\n\r\nFirst, consider why it is you\u2019re looking to introduce toys. Knowing your rationale will help your partner to understand your wishes and remove the \u2018Am I not enough for you?\u2019 doubt. Couple\u2019s vibrators, cock rings and stimulating nipple pegs can add waves of pleasure to your shared bedroom for both parties. Make it clear that you want to use toys in addition to your partner, not instead of them.\r\n\r\nStart the conversation in a neutral space, away from the bedroom and when you have enough time to discuss at length. Your partner needs to feel heard, so don\u2019t rush. Tell them how crazy turned on you are by them, talk about what new things you can both do enjoy when using toys, address how happy you are with their pussy\/fingers\/mouth and that a toy could take that pleasure to the next level for you both. Most importantly, listen and react appropriately to their thoughts on the subject (no shocked facial expressions).\r\n\r\nOn a later day when they\u2019ve agreed to introduce toys to the bedroom, you can start the fun part \u2013 browsing for a toy you\u2019ll both enjoy. Do this in bed together, scrolling sites to read reviews and see which toys speak to you, discussing how you\u2019d use them on each other. This is often a major turn on and may even help some fantasies come to the surface. Embrace them.\r\n\r\nPleasure toys come in all shapes and sizes, and I guarantee there\u2019s one out there for you. Think about what turns you both on during sex. Are you a butt guy? Try a bullet vibrator that your partner can press against your taint as you come. Love staying hard as long as you can? A vibrating cock ring will make you last longer and she\u2019ll love the way it feels on her clitoris. Love having all your erogenous zones \u2013 nipples, anus, clitoris, neck, feet and more \u2013 stimulated during foreplay? A mushroom-head wand is a great addition to your bedroom.\r\n\r\nAnd that\u2019s just the beginning; there are plenty more for you to explore. All you need to do is have a play to find one you both love.\r\n\r\nOnce your toys arrive, you\u2019ve used them (and avoided silicone-based lubricant with silicone toys, as this would cause them damage), and cleaned them correctly (often warm water only suffices), be sure to debrief with your partner. Did you both enjoy it? Did they feel respected? Do you want to try something else are you both happy with the toy\/s you\u2019ve purchased?\r\n\r\nUsed intermittently in sex with your partner, or for pleasure play when they\u2019re out of town, sex toys can be an incredibly sexy addition to your relationship. Talk about them with each other so there\u2019s no taboo or shame attached (there shouldn\u2019t be!) and don\u2019t put pressure on one another. Like anything sex-related, the more \u2018go with the flow\u2019 approach to pleasure toys you both have, the more fun you\u2019ll have with them between the sheets. Promise.\r\nVisit Adam & Eve\r\nYou should also know Adam and Eve also offer\u00a024\/7 Customer Service, a 90 Day No Hassle Return Policy and 20% of their profit goes to fighting the spread of HIV and STDs around the world!\r\nEnter code MANY at checkout\u00a0\u00a0for 50% Off 1 Item + Free Shipping In the US & Canada + 3 Free Adult DVDs + Free Mystery Gift *some exclusions apply\r\nAbout the Author: Tammi Ireland is a sex educator. To enhance your sex life and relationship, visit BARE Sexology on Instagram.